RELATIONSHIPS

APRROACH

Experiencing a meaningful and connected romantic relationship is a wonderful experience that transcends all areas of your life and nourishes our most inner soul. From our earliest age, the need for love and emotional connection is an ever present quest that shapes who we are and our perceptions of the world around us.

When we are lacking this connection, our lives often feel unfulfilled and we may likely face sadness, depression, loneliness, and an erosion of our own ability for true intimacy. Whether an unfulfilled yearning from our childhood, or something that is missing in our current relationships, it is possible to change and improve our romantic relationships so they reflect the values of love and intimacy we know we want.

I know this because because I’m a person who has always craved deep intimate connection and have experienced it in my own life over my many years, both personally, and professionally with others. As a man with extensive life experience, emotional range, and an openhearted perspective to your needs as an individual, I bring a very unique perspective not readily available from anyone else, to help you move away from the unhappiness, poor choices, and consequences of unhealthy relationships.

In our work together, we will examine, question, challenge, and change false beliefs, in order to change your life. First and foremost, who you truly are and what you truly want, are the empowering foundation of our time together. You are a unique, capable, and beautiful creation, who deserves love, admiration, and safety within a trusted intimacy with someone you love.

SESSION WORK

Examining Inner Connectedness and Fulfillment

Guided dialog exploring the ways in which you have abandoned self, along with the how and why.

current and past relationships
societal expectations and pressure
parental and role model influences
relationship trauma
childhood experiences

This area of work provides a new and more empowering self perspective, free of the self-doubt, shame, and disconnectedness of failed relationships, in order to move into an infinite source of love with a higher spiritual self, genuine confidence, and deep inner happiness.

Examining Outer Connectedness

As you more further discover your true spiritual self, we will also be incorporating work on your outer connectedness. In other words, how you currently relate to others.

Is it characterized by people pleasing and difficulty setting boundaries, or is there a tendency to push others away? Both leave us feeling unloved.

We will also look at the conversations and your in-the-moment reactions to the main frustrations of your current or most recent relationship.

Analyzing and empowering communication and coping mechanisms

How does your connectedness through interactions with those aside from your significant other either support or disable your intimate relationships?

Discovering What You Truly want

As we continue through the process, the combination of self-realization and guidance will naturally begin to reveal the truth of what you truly want in a relationship. You’ll begin to discover how choices you previously made and certain things you thought were important in a relationship, are something you don't need or even want anymore.

This period of the process is a when tangible transformation occurs and you will begin receiving different results from your new thoughts and actions. You will start to find yourself sharing love with someone in the way that’s comfortable and fulfilling for you, rather than just getting love to fill a void in yourself or within them.

Manifestation and Action

This phase or our work together is very uplifting and also very practical. It’s about moving through transformation and our work at this point is very coaching oriented and designed to help guide your new self-empowered perspective as you navigate the amazing landscape and wonderful opportunities to find happiness and self fulfillment in your relationships.

Our goal from the beginning includes giving yourself permission and being confident about what you want in a healthy and sustained romantic relationship, by benefiting from my experience, perspective, observations, and guidance to move yourself forward into the intimacy you want as soon as possible.